Why Reserved Seats Exist: A Father’s Lesson on Equality and Respect
Sameer looked at his father with curiosity while travelling in the Bus.
“Why did those people get up from their seats?” he asked.
His father smiled. “Those seats are reserved for ladies,” he replied.
Sameer thought for a moment. “But when I am with Mom, I always sit there. When I am with you, I cannot.”
His father laughed softly and hugged him. “You can sit there now because you are a child,” he said. “When you grow up, you will offer that seat to a lady. That is how we show respect.”
Later that evening, the question returned.
“Dad,” Sameer asked, “our teacher said boys and girls are equal. Then why do we have reserved seats for ladies?”
His father paused. It was a simple question with a deep meaning.
After a moment, he said gently, “You are right, Sameer. Men and women are equal. But for a long time, women faced unfair situations while travelling or working. These seats were created to make travel safer and fairer. They are not about giving extra privilege. They remind society to offer care and respect where it is needed.”
He continued, “Think of it like this. Some boys love cricket, others love music. Each gets what helps them grow. Equality means giving everyone what they truly need, not treating everyone the same way.”
Sameer smiled. “So equality is not only about rules. It is about how we act.”
His father nodded. “Exactly. Equality begins in the mind and shows in our behaviour. And it starts with young hearts like yours.”
Sameer’s eyes brightened. “Then we will make it part of our culture.”
His father smiled proudly. “Yes, that is how real change begins.”
Moral of the Story:
Equality means fairness — giving everyone what they need to feel safe, respected, and valued.
Reflection:
True gender equality grows from respect, not comparison. Reserved seats remind us that fairness sometimes begins with small acts of care. When we teach this to our children, equality becomes part of our culture.
By Shabnum Khan, Author of Upgrade Your Parenting
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Why Parents Must Teach Children About Gender Equality
Children learn more from what they see than from what they hear. When they watch how parents treat each other, how decisions are shared, and how respect is given, they form their own beliefs about fairness.
Teaching gender equality early helps children understand that respect has no gender. It allows boys to see kindness as strength and girls to see confidence as natural.
In today’s fast-changing world, children face different kinds of pressures. They see roles and expectations shift quickly. That is why parents need to guide them with balanced values. You can read more about this balance in 7 Essential Tips for Indian Parents in the 21st Century.
When parents talk openly about equality, children learn that opportunities, responsibilities, and respect belong to everyone. These conversations also build emotional understanding — a skill that every child needs. To strengthen that connection, you may explore How to Communicate Effectively with Your Child: Building Trust and Understanding.
This lesson is not about teaching who is stronger. It is about helping children realise that both boys and girls have the same right to dream, grow, and be treated with dignity.
How Parents Can Encourage Children Toward Gender Equality
Start with everyday moments.
When your son helps in the kitchen or your daughter fixes a toy, praise them equally for their effort, not the task. Actions like these show that no job belongs to one gender.
Use stories, movies, and real-life examples to talk about fairness. Discuss what could have been different if everyone was treated equally. Ask gentle questions like, “Was that fair?” or “What could we do better next time?” These small talks encourage open thinking — similar to what is discussed in Balanced Discipline for Positive Growth: Raising Respectful & Responsible Kids.
Encourage empathy. When children learn to imagine how others feel, they start treating everyone with care. Equality grows naturally from empathy. You can also help them build confidence and kindness through How to Raise Emotionally Strong and Confident Kids.
Most importantly, lead by example. Share chores. Listen equally. Speak with respect.
Because when children see fairness at home, they carry that value wherever they go.
If you are looking for more simple and powerful ideas to practise this daily, you may enjoy 5 Parenting Lessons That Make Life Easier.
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FAQs for Parents on Teaching Gender Equality
Parents often ask how to help children understand gender equality. Here are answers to some of the most common questions Indian parents have.
At what age should I start teaching my child about gender equality?
Start early. Children begin noticing differences between boys and girls by age three or four. Use everyday examples — like both parents sharing chores or decisions. The earlier they see fairness at home, the more natural equality becomes for them.
How can I explain gender equality in simple words?
Say that being equal does not mean being the same. It means being fair. Explain that both boys and girls deserve the same respect, care, and opportunities. Use examples they can relate to — such as both parents working or helping at home.
What should I say if my child asks about reserved seats for women?
Tell them those seats are not special privileges. They are reminders of care and safety for women who once faced more challenges in public spaces. Explain that true equality means giving everyone what they need to feel safe and respected.
How can I teach gender equality through daily life?
Start small. Let your son help in the kitchen. Let your daughter fix a broken toy. Praise both for their effort. When children see equality in action, they believe in it more deeply. You can also read Balanced Discipline for Positive Growth: Raising Respectful & Responsible Kids for more ideas.
What if older relatives do not agree with modern ideas of equality?
Teach your child to stay respectful yet aware. Say that older people may have grown up in a different time. Encourage quiet change through action, not argument. When children act with fairness, others notice — and slowly, mindsets change.
Can teaching equality make my child question everything too much?
Curiosity is a sign of growth. Guide them with calm conversations. Encourage them to ask questions and share opinions, but also to listen. Equality is not about arguing who is right; it is about creating balance that works for everyone.
How can I raise both boys and girls to believe in equality?
Treat them the same in rules, freedom, and appreciation. Encourage both to express emotions, make decisions, and show care. Teach empathy as much as confidence. You can explore more in How to Raise Emotionally Strong and Confident Kids.
Is it necessary to talk about gender equality in Indian homes today?
Yes. India is changing fast, and children must grow with balanced values. Talking about equality helps them handle real-world situations with fairness and confidence. When they see respect shared equally at home, they carry that value into society.
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💬 What are your thoughts on teaching children gender equality and respect? Have you noticed moments when your child showed fairness or empathy? Share your experience in the comments below, your story might encourage another parent to begin that conversation today.